The Mothers of the engaged couple should wait until the wedding dress and bridesmaid's dresses have been organised before looking. A good time to find what you are after, and depending on when the wedding is, is during the race season in your state. Most stores will have occasion wear on display during this time, and then if you are willing to chance waiting for it to go on sale, wait for after the race season to purchase your outfit.

Before you start looking sit down and think about some of your favourite outfits and colours. Also discuss with the bride what vision she has for her day and if she has any suggestions of styles she likes for you. However, it is important to keep an open mind when looking at rack upon rack of dresses. Something on the hanger might come to life once you try it on, so don't be shy of a few fashion parades as you shop. Ask the assistants for help too, they know their stock and know tricks of the trade to make a Mother of the Bride or Groom look as special as she feels .

Depending on the weather you may wish to glam it up with a traditional hat. Again this is wonderful to find during the after-race-season sales, or you might pick up a bargain on eBay. Other ways to accessorise your outfit include your jewellery, shoes, and bag (and your partner's tie). If it is cold and you have chosen to wear a gown, you should have a look around for an attractive shawl or short jacket to accentuate your outfit, not detract from it. If it is a winter wedding, pick up an umbrella that fits with your outfit so you will look stylish while hiding from the raindrops. Remember to pick up a decorate (and clean) handkerchief to wipe away any of those tears that are bound to flow are you watch your child say their vows.

The most important tips for the Mother of the Bride or Groom to remember is to find an outfit that is comfortable, to ensure the day is enjoyed without "fixing" the outfit every ten minutes, or being concerned about bulges and bumps (Nancy Gantz and other underwear can help with that too). Pick a classic style that can then be worn to other events after the wedding.mother o